Thursday, January 20th, 2011...7:33 am
Joy, Sly and Sneaky
I found out that real joy—the “joy made full” that Jesus puts in me—doesn’t come when I get what I want. It comes when I do what God wants.
I’ve found that the deepest joy is borne by obedience.
Just as the Father has loved Me, I have also loved you; abide in My love. If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept the Father’s commandments, and abide in His love. These things I have spoken to you that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be made full.
This is My commandment, that you love one another.
(John 15:9-12)
Jesus said things for the purpose of His disciples’ joy! He wants me to have joy, and in these words He very simply spells out the way, like jotting one-line directions on a scrap of paper:
To get to Joy:
Obey My commandments. (No turning right or left.)
This way of thinking about obedience—it’s a little unexpected, isn’t it? I once asked a group of women, “Quick, just off the top of your head, what words and images come to mind when you think of OBEDIENCE?” What do you associate with obedience?
Some of their responses:
Following directions.
“Yes, sir. Yes, ma’am.”
A tuxedo-clad, stone-faced butler.
Soldiers obeying orders.
No one mentioned “joy,” yet Jesus made a direct link between obedience and joy. Maybe we don’t typically make the obedience-joy connection because the joy that follows obedience, follows it stealthily. Maybe when I’m obeying God, the joy is not immediately apparent because it’s sneaking up on me.
Now it shall be, if you will diligently obey the Lord your God, being careful to do all His commandments which I command you today, the Lord your God will set you high above all the nations of the earth. And all these blessings shall come upon you and overtake you, if you will obey the Lord your God.
(Deuteronomy 28:1-2)
Listen to that! The blessings will come upon you. They will overtake you.
“Come upon” you! “Overtake” you! What a scene that puts in my head! Here I am, walking in obedience. I simply hear the Lord’s words and obey, keeping my eyes forward. Behind me, yet undetected, are the blessings. They are like someone suppressing a giggle, playfully sneaking up on me, catching up to me, coming upon me. And then . . .
Gotcha! The blessings have caught up! They come upon me! Now, instead of the stealth and silence, I hear out-loud laughter. Ha! Got you! And I am overtaken. The blessing is so great, it is overwhelming. I was unaware that the blessings were back there, following me, pursuing me. Now, the blessings have not only caught up to me but passed me up. They have gone beyond me and I am overtaken, as if I were a goal to be achieved, a prize to be won.
I have known this kind of blessing that overwhelms. I am so blessed my heart and soul are near bursting. My cup overflows. Surely goodness and lovingkindness will follow me . . .
I didn’t even know that the blessings were back there, following me. I simply walked in obedience, waiting on the Lord in surrender and in trust. Before I was aware of them, it was a painful road, lonely and desperate. But I kept walking. Then (!) the blessings came, and they got me. I have known it. Yes, I know it.
Lord, I know this kind of blessing and joy. I will remember, and the memory will keep me walking on the road of obedience.
(Part of the above was originally posted on April 16, 2009.)


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14 Comments
January 20th, 2011 at 9:34 am
Sometimes the joy of obedience sneaks up on me too, Monica…it is such a rich, deep kind of resonating–peace and satisfaction. Don’t you just love Bonnie’s “Principles of Joy Staining”? I think you have one for the list here
. Sending love your way this day
January 20th, 2011 at 10:03 am
Oh, how I’ve needed this. The connection between the head and heart and back to the head often hops the tracks for me. Thanks for this.
Blessings.
January 20th, 2011 at 7:01 pm
I haven’t thought of the joy-obedience link in a very long time. Thank you so much for the beautiful reminder. I, too, am fond of the image of being overtaken by joy! What a grand image!
January 21st, 2011 at 12:33 am
lovely post. thanks, monica.
January 21st, 2011 at 1:39 pm
Your words are a wonderful reminder that joy is a surprise gift for us… when we step out and follow after what God says. Thanks, Monica!
January 21st, 2011 at 2:15 pm
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January 21st, 2011 at 6:00 pm
I love how joy caught up to you. Everything we do in obedience now is setting up our future. I really love how the joy caught up to you, then passed and overtook you. What a beautiful scenario!
January 26th, 2011 at 11:01 am
Yes, this is true. Thanks, Monica.
January 26th, 2011 at 12:25 pm
Gotcha! The blessings have caught up.
That made me smile.
January 30th, 2011 at 6:38 pm
One of my greatest joys came from obeying God. He suggested, last December, that I skip my family ski trip and stay with mt mother, who was dying. It was an excriciating week, but she died two months later. I had no regrets.
January 31st, 2011 at 2:31 pm
Mmmmm, I love John 15. I have decided that if I abide with Him all day that all else will flow, I will hear, I will obey…it is a flow between us that brings that joy as we abide.
February 1st, 2011 at 8:39 am
So…you didn’t mind being my muse yesterday (I hope). Just dropping in to say hi. I must admit, Glynn’s comment has me panicked also! My boys discovered the brownies…nothing left but crumbs.
Have a wonderful February, Monica!
February 3rd, 2011 at 10:30 am
FROM THE BLOG OWNER:
Dearest Readers,
Mysteriously, I am unable to log in to this blog, so I’m attempting to communicate via the comment box! Because I can’t seem to get in here anymore, I am now blogging at Know-Love-Obey God’s new location:
http://monicasharman.wordpress.com
Hope to see you there!
Monica
October 15th, 2012 at 8:01 pm
I love what I am reading, because I need help. I have problems with alcholol but want to obey our Father through Jesus. Just feel lost, but have asked Jesus everyday to help me to commit and obey.
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